Love, Intimacy, and Transcendent Sex

How to get from normal cultural standard sex to deep fulfilling intimacy!

  • You have had a taste of transcendence and wonder how to bring that into your partnership?
  • You are struggling with communication issues in your intimate life?
  • Satisfied, but what’s next?

It’s a long journey from normal sex to tantric energetic love making. I will expose what it takes within yourself to uncover religious and cultural entrainment for finding deeper intimacy.

This program shared in personal sessions is not to overlay your current sexuality for more hot sex. It’s to truly transcend all consensus reality for embodying frequencies that you haven’t even dreamed off. Sex can be a powerful door of deep intimate connection with yourself, your partner in a long-term relationship and with Source itself to ultimate embodied transcendence.

Receive inspirations in deepening the intimacy with yourself and with your partner

  • 1-hour session (phone/video)
  • 1-day Personal Intensive (in-person or phone/video)
  • 3-day mini retreat (in-person or create your own mini retreat at an airbnb with daily guidance)
  • Continued support over four months with bi-weekly sessions

Create Deeper Intimacy

Access tools to bridge distances with your partner across the dinner table, countries and even timezones.

Always wondered how to make a woman happy? – Ask her!

I thought I needed to please the sexual desire of my partner.
It turned out that all the wanted is to make me happy!
I dared to speak up and share how I like to be touched and pleasured, rejoicing in feminine receptivity.

Clear heartfelt communication outside the bedroom and tender guidance in bed, insisting in a gentle way on my style of lovemaking.

Now, I am different in my forties than in my twenties. I like energetic connection way before touch. For some of you this may be the other way around. Get in touch with me to find your unique approach to your sexuality.

Deepen Your Intimacy Energetically through Time and Space and Deeply at Home

Couple Coaching for Fulfilling Intimacy

Private sessions to transform personal issues and to find and deepen intimacy.

Pain, injuries, no erection, stress, frustration, fear of pregnancy, infections? You name it!

Find ways to communicate from your heart and bridge gender differences.

  • No pressure to perform to make him or her happy
  • Fulfilling lovemaking without intercourse
  • Learn to listen to your body versus your biological drive

You may book sessions together or individually.

Bridge your meditation practice and fulfilling sex

You have been practicing yoga and meditation, maybe visited ashrams, but are wondering how to connect the sacred with everyday life in partnership?

Currently only taught in private sessions via phone.
Stay tuned for couple retreats in Hawaii.

Read, what clients say

“Dr. Xian emanates natural compassion, a peace and brilliant clarity through her voice, questions, and guidance. All of her practical suggestions were easily implemented showing immediate success. Anyone will be very blessed to be with Dr. Xian benefiting from her skills and her ability to demonstrate true Presence. I whole-heartedly recommend her supportive services to everyone I meet.”

“I want to say how meaningful and impactful the last class session was for me. I was able to get in touch with my emotions in a way that allowed me to feel supported in my process.”

“My experience with Dr. Xian was life-changing, and I’ve seen many healers over a 20-year period. She had high degree of skill in advanced technologies that is beyond anything I’d ever experienced… And perhaps what was most touching and effective was her purity of spirit and high degree of integrity in her work. I highly recommend her to anyone who has the opportunity for a session and/or training, and sent one of my clients to her.
Waves of Gratitude pour from my innermost heart to yours….Abundant Blessings!”

“I naturally felt a high level of safety and trust in Dr. Xian’s presence. The way she combined my intentions with her approach to healing and coaching facilitated a very deep healing in my physical, emotional and spiritual bodies.”

“Coaching with her for over a year inspired me to new forms of expression and truth in my life, and to truly follow my inner compass.  This set me firmly on my new path, embodied, spiritually resourced, joyful and ready.”